Before we get into today’s lesson, I would like to remind you of one thing. If the only image of a bad woman you have is the one you’ve seen on television or in movies, you know that this image is wrong. In fact, what is seen on the screen is a sexualization of the woman, a way of placing her in the position of object of her partner, as if she were submissive to him. In reality, being a bad woman means having power.
But if you try to imitate what you see on the screen, you will be ridiculous. In fact, if you’re not a mischievous woman by nature, you’ll be clumsy at trying to impress your partner. This is not sexy at all. The truth is, if you’re a particularly sweet and kind person, it’s not easy to become that naughty woman in the bedroom. Read down below and find out how to be a baddie.
How to be a baddie?
Forget your soft side
Do not worry! Your man knows you are a good woman. He knows you are not toxic or evil or dangerous. In his mind, you are a kind, understanding, and kind person. And that’s exactly who you are! But that doesn’t mean you can’t slip to the dark side from time to time. In everyday life, having a kind and tolerant wife is all a man needs. But in bed, it’s boring. So you have to become a bad woman to make your relationship last.
Being naughty, learning self-confidence
If you don’t have confidence in yourself, you will never be a bad woman. Women who choose to show their wild side know very well what they are doing. They know they are sexy. Indeed, being bad is knowing that the power is in your hands. It’s being aware of your sex appeal and what you can get from your partner because of it. So sit in front of the mirror and learn to appreciate all your qualities. Build your self-confidence and you’ll feel much more comfortable in your role as a mean woman.
Take control
To have a naughty relationship in the bedroom, you’ll need to assert your desires and desires. You will also have to take the reins of your own way of making love. So it’s important that your man knows exactly what you want and where your limits are. In bed, you are the boss! Trust me, with this simple trick, you will drive your partner crazy with desire!
Take your time
If you rush things, you will probably get carried away, trip and make a big mess! First, figure out what your man likes. Try to figure out what makes you feel comfortable and what doesn’t. If you put on a sexy outfit, jump on him and yell dirty words, he’ll have a good time. He may even laugh because he thinks you are joking. Make gradual changes and see what you like and what you don’t with each step.
To be bad, you must first have some inspiration
We are among adults, so I will get straight to the point: you need to watch some pornographic movies. If you’ve never seen anything like this, you might feel a little uneasy at first. Try not to be judgmental, just observe how women behave. By the way, my advice is to start with erotic movies rather than pornography. Analyze the behavior of women and what they say. What do they say? What do they wear? How they behave? All of this material is easy to find. All you have to do is take notes and describe the behavior of the mean woman in front of you. Then try to imitate her.
Learn to express what you want
A big part of the mean woman vibe is the ability to use words. This means that you will have to learn to talk sensually. This will be a great way to rekindle the flame of passion between you and your partner. Being mean isn’t just a matter of behavior. It’s a perfect way to bring out your naughty side while adding something new to the room. Plus, these sensual conversations don’t have to be limited to the bedroom. In fact, you need to learn how to sext. That is, you have to build tension between you and your partner, even when you’re not physically together.
Sexting in practice
So how do you sexting to ignite passion? If you’re a shy woman, don’t jump into crude statements right away. Often, the innuendo can create far more sexual tension than the crude words. Thus, sensual rather than s*sexual statements can be sent. Naughty photos can also be sent. Be careful! Only if you trust your man completely.
Stay within the bounds of what gives you a sense of security
As I said before, making compromises under the duvet is nearly essential to a fulfilling naughty relationship. But everything must be normal. For example, if something your partner likes to do makes you uncomfortable, don’t step out of your comfort zone. On the other hand, if they ask you to do something that intrigues you, then don’t hesitate. Don’t hold back. Because it’s when you’re really involved that you have fun.
Being bad means being willing to try new positions
There is nothing more boring in bed than repeating the same positions over and over again. And if they’re always in the same order, it’s even worse. To build a naughty relationship, you have to try new things. There is no bad woman position, strictly speaking. But you can just do something you haven’t done before. Take the initiative, for example, or tell your man clearly what you want him to do to you. Nothing is sexier than a woman who knows what she wants.
Buy a dress worthy of a bad woman
Being bad isn’t just about your attitude, it’s also about what you wear. This means going shopping and buying things that scream “bad woman.” Lots of black lace and leather are perfect for this. You can also have a whip and handcuffs if you really want to take it to the next level. Mind you, I repeat: do not put yourself in situations where you feel uncomfortable. He stays true to yourself. Pleasing your man is one thing, but you also need to have fun. And if you don’t feel comfortable, you won’t.
A bad woman knows how to have fun
Being intimate is about letting go and allowing yourself to be vulnerable with someone. Then do it! Holding on to insecurity and fear will only make things super awkward. Enjoy the time you have with your man. Enjoy the fact that you can pretend to be someone else and that your partner likes you. Focus on having fun and it will be even more effective.
Relax!
If it’s not in your nature to be mean, this process may scare you. You may be afraid of looking ridiculous or not liking your partner. But in reality, you have nothing to worry about. Your relationship is strong enough and your man has no intention of making you feel uncomfortable. So introduce yourself as you feel and you will see that your partner will accept you.
