o you ever wonder why some people are naturally good kissers but you struggle to put a smile on someone else’s face? Or why some people have it so easy and can make others feel awkward by simply being around them?
Well, the good news is that there are actually a number of ways to be a better kisser. And, as with most things in life, practice makes perfect! Let’s take a look at how to be a better kisser – Tips and Tricks to Turn You Into a Great kisser!
Pay attention to details.
Pay attention to the little things that make someone’s smile break out. Are they laughing? Great! You’re achieving a win-win situation by making their day. Pay attention to small details: the way they hold their phone, their writing, the fact that they wiped the excess saliva from their mouth. Pay attention to when someone yawns, and notice when they seem to be in pain. Pay attention to their body language – do they look exhausted? If so, perhaps they’re not in the mood to talk.
Make sure your smile is big and genuine!
This one’s pretty self-explanatory, right? The more genuine your smile, the more time someone has to smile back! A genuine smile from someone else feels good, and it makes you feel good too. And when you smile back at other people, they’ll sense it and feel good too. This is how you get people to smile back at you – by simply being yourself.
Learn how to make people feel better before you do it yourself!
Kissing is supposed to make someone feel good, so it’s important to ease their pain before you do anything. However, sometimes you just don’t know the person you’re talking to. Maybe they’re in a bad mood and want to be left alone. Or maybe they’re on the phone and want to be left alone too. You never know! So, before you try to make someone feel better, think about if it’s helpful or just unwanted.
Don’t be afraid to show your teeth!
There are lots of ways to show someone you love them, but the easiest way is probably the most clichéd. You show your teeth by puckering your mouth into a smile, revealing your teeth. However, this doesn’t mean you have to be a ‘bad boy’ and grin through your whole conversation. You can subtly show someone you love them by giving them a smile when they’re talking to you but not looking at them.
Take a moment before you say goodbye!
When someone says goodbye to you, whatever happens next, say ‘goodbye’ back to them. If they ask you where you’re going, say ‘I don’t know’. If they ask you why, say ‘I don’t know either’. Muttering under your breath, shake your head and give them a small smile are all signs of a ‘goodbye’ conversation still. Don’t just say ‘bye’, feel ‘bye’.
Next time you’re in public, make sure to smile first!
When you go out in public, it’s important to remember to smile first! This means before you say anything, make sure to check if someone is smiling back at you first. If they aren’t, hold your smile until they are! This is a sign that you should be smiling too!
Conclusion
The best way to be a better kisser is to practice. And by practicing, I don’t just mean kissing and making out with random people. Practice saying yes, practice making eye contact, practice laughing, and most importantly, practice being yourself! If you love someone, you’ll give them a chance to show it by simply being in front of them. And if they don’t smile back, don’t worry! You didn’t give them permission to not smile. Give it a try and see what happens.
